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We are Family, especially in Margate!

More and more gay families now include children – adopted, biological, maybe even from previous op-sex relationships. Where better to take your little sprogs than for a fun few days out by the sea in born-again-trendy Margate, and wider Thanet, in queerest Kent? And just in time for Margate Pride (7-13 Aug 2017)!

For the past 250 years, Londoners have been escaping to the ‘Isle of Thanet’ – the furthest south east you can go in Britain, although now in fact a peninsula, an ‘almost island’! But the journey’s never been easier or quicker, now taking a mere 75 minutes by train from the centre of the capital! Moreover, there’s rarely been a better time to visit, to experience Margate’s Bohemian retro-chic “hipster renewal”, in part powered by an arty gay influx, much of which will doubtless be hugely on display in the imminent Pride!


Sandy beaches, chalk cliffs, fresh sea air and sweeping skies have long graced Thanet’s three main Georgian/Victorian resorts – Margate, Broadstairs and Ramsgate – attracting the likes of Turner, Dickens and TS Eliot. Now, there’s a cool new gloss-and-twist to tad-outdated 20th Century seaside kitsch. And an influx of creative souls, of all persuasions, now powers a wide variety of indi shops, bars, eateries, salons and hotels. Gone is the pier, in a 1970s storm. Vanished are the mods, rockers and skins. Here is the Turner Contemporary gallery, and iconic Dreamland. And hordes of lovely queers.



Stay at the historic seafront Walpole Bay Hotel (Fifth Avenue, Cliftonville, Margate, Kent CT9 2JJ; T: +44 (0)1843 221703;) in Cliftonville, a genteel eastern district of Margate. This magical, authentic property was built in 1914, extended in 1927 and is now being lovingly restored to its former (‘Edwardian’) glory by the Bishop family, overseen by the gorgeously matriarchal and hands-on figure of Jane Bishop – dubbed the “Banshee of Margate” by regular guest Tracey Emin, who’s portrait of Jane is on proud display in the hotel’s unique Napery Gallery (of napkin art)! The rooms are large, light and en suite, many with balconies, all with sea views. Being family-run, the Walpole Bay Hotel is very child-friendly, with a large number of family rooms and suites. Kids will especially like the sprawling on-site and ever-growing museum of local Margate and Thanet history and everyday life in days gone by, brimming with old artefacts across all five floors; plus the snooker room! Lovely foyer (complete with original fully-working trellis-gated lift and still-played pianola), bar-lounge, restaurant, outdoor flower-deck veranda and 1920s sprung-floor ballroom too! And with a character like Jane in charge, this amazing hotel is not only child-friendly but extremely gay- and pet-friendly ‘n all! Excellent characterful staff likewise help ensure a home-from-home atmosphere that keeps fans returning year-on-year, not to mention celebs like the cast of the film Last Orders, including Sir Tom Courtenay! Great Wi-Fi throughout! Top cream teas and Sunday lunches! Occasional murder mysteries! To top it all, the hotel even has its own in-house VIP hair and make-up salon, run by award-winning French-born Jerome Hillion who, in addition to a jet-set international career, has also fallen in love with Margate, and the Walpole. . In gist, there can be very few hotels in the land that have such history, variety and eccentricity as the magical Walpole Bay Hotel!


Eat at much-lauded GB Pizza Co (14 Marine Drive;) slap-bang on the seafront, open from noon all-week-round serving freshly-made pizza on a thin and crispy base, made with a special secret dough and slow-cooked tomato sauce, and topped lightly but deliciously with local cheeses and British cured meats! Founders Rachel and Lisa know their stuff and are passionate about food, having toured their pizzas up and down the country, out of a Campervan, before falling in love with Margate and setting up shop on the Marine Drive here five years ago, and undergoing a full refurb just earlier this year – in trendy pink neon and greys! Well-behaved kids and dogs most welcome! Place your orders at the counter and take wine from the self-service taps! Takeaways too, but no delivery. Pure Margate: trendy and tasty, friendly and quirky!


Many of Thanet’s top lures – sea, beach, harbour, gallery, Dreamland entry – are free! Those that aren’t offer great value!


To gad about, get almost-new yet retro-style hire bikes – complete with locks, helmets and excellent advice from ace staff – from superb ‘ride’, hubbed near the railway station. Margate and wider Thanet are so geared up for bikes, being hooked into national cycle routes, that you can easily explore the whole coast, from towards Herne Bay out west to Broadstairs and Ramsgate, via jaw-dropping chalk-pillared Botany Bay, out east!

  1. Dreamland Margate – Arguably Britain’s oldest-surviving amusement park, the site of Dreamland (as it was re-named in 1920) dates back to the British railway boom of the early 1860s, then a ‘Hall by the Sea’. A plan to close and redevelop the site in 2003 was thankfully fended off and £18m of public funding was secured to restore Dreamland to its former glory, notably its Grade II-listed Scenic Railway (world’s second oldest), cinema complex and menagerie cages. Capitalising on Margate’s swiftly growing reputation as a brand-new capital of British cool, a.k.a. ‘Shoreditch-on-Sea’, Dreamland Margate reopened in June 2017 with a modern twist, aiming to redefine ‘a day out at the seaside’. The amusement park is re-landscaped to provide a space that brings together lovingly restored vintage rides set against a backdrop of art installations, including an interactive marble run and a mirrored spinning top; adventurous street food; unique bars; and an eclectic programme of live events. A new garden boardwalk lets you admire the antique 1800s menagerie cages. The ride line-up features old favourites like The Waltzer alongside new additions including the Crazy Mouse. Fab Mirror Maze, Big Wheel and Dodgems too! Watch out for the World’s Biggest Bouncy Castle! The 15,000-capacity event space is also ready to welcome international and homegrown acts to Dreamland, putting Margate firmly back on the music venue map. This is alongside the legendary 2000 capacity ‘Hall By The Sea’, that once famously played host to the likes of The Rolling Stones and The Who. On the seafront, the original 1930s Cinque Ports pub is being brought back to life, to be complemented by Margate’s only rooftop bar offering unparalleled vistas over that iconic ‘Turner’ skyline. Although the Dreamland site is free to enter, wristbands or Dream Passes are needed to gain access on the rides. You can choose from: Little Kid wristband for those under 1.25m and Big Kid wristbands for those over 1.25m, AAA (Access All Areas – including Octopus Garden for under-8s, Roller Disco & Amusement Park) and the 2-day wristband. A scream for all ages – from nought to nineties!
  2. Shell Grotto – Kent’s greatest mystery: discovered by chance in 1835, a Grade I-listed subterranean “whodunnit”, decorated with 4.6 million shells. Nice exhibition, shop and café too! Pagan temple? Secret cult? Have a look and place your bet!
  3. Strokes Adventure Golf – 18-hole skills-based mini-golf course set in attractive surroundings on the seafront, boasting rockscapes, plants and water features. Run by charming Alexa and Matt, the course is affiliated to the British Minigolf Association and has hosted the prestigious British Open on 5 occasions (2007, 2008, 2009, 2012, 2013). Nice café too!
  4. Turner Contemporary – Art gallery opened in 2011 right by the harbour, celebrating painter JMW Turner’s connection with Margate and helping regenerate the town through rolling contemporary art exhibitions including, occasionally, from local girl Tracey Emin! The gallery’s superb annual schools’ art competition show, Portfolio, runs ‘til 24 Sept 2017!
  5. Theatre Royal Margate is the country’s second oldest theatre, a jewel-box-gem; plus cute 50-seater Tom Thumb Theatre is one of the country’s smallest – both venues still going strong, alongside the larger Winter Gardens which itself has hosted performers ranging from Laurel & Hardy to The Beatles!
  6. Margate Museum – Housed in a former Victorian police station and magistrates court, the museum now boasts an extraordinary collection of artefacts, pictures and objects giving a wide-ranging history of the town over the past five millennia!
  7. Quex House & Gardens; & Powell-Cotton Museum – Fine Regency country house with beautiful gardens set in the heart of an historic estate boasting a world-class museum with important collections from Africa, Asia and the Far East, featuring exquisitely stuffed animals plus oriental fine arts and porcelain, antique furniture, ceramics, weaponry and local archaeology. Hands-on Gallery 6 is especially beloved by kids. Nice restaurant and gift shop too. Famously friendly, knowledgeable staff!
  8. Joss Bay Surf School – Established in 1998 in beautiful sandy Joss Bay – between Margate and Broadstairs, and by far the most popular surf spot in south east England – Joss Bay Surf School is a nationally-recognised provider of professional surf lessons for people of all ages and abilities, and is Kent’s award-winning, longest-running and best surf school! Over the past two decades, Dave and his professional, friendly and safety-first team have taken thousands of beginners into the water and introduced them to the exhilarating surfing experience! Whether solo, a couple or in a group – the thrill of catching a wave and riding it in will soon be yours! Sup lessons and tours, board and wetsuit hire, kayaks – all available too! Also part of the Wheels & Fins Festival (8-10 Sept 2017) held in Joss Bay, for top action sports and music fun!
  9. Sea Searcher Seal & Wildlife Tour – 1½-hour cruise in a former fishing boat from Ramsgate Royal Harbour, visiting an active seal colony inside a National Nature Reserve which also boasts a wide range of birds including the rare ingret. Alternatively take their shorter trips around Ramsgate’s harbours and dramatic shoreline!
  10. Ramsgate Tunnels – 1½-hour guided tour of Ramsgate’s extensive warren of subterranean WW2 air raid shelters built into the cliffs beneath the town – a veritable underground city which developed out of an original 19th Century railway tunnel. Nice café too!



Of course, you’re unlikely to sneak your sprog or sprogs past the bouncers at many bars or clubs, and – even where a licence permits – that could prove a bit of a bore in a child’s bigger scheme!


However, when out on the main beach or promenade, one can hardly miss Margate’s, nay Thanet’s, only LGBT bar, restaurant and club. Sundowners (1 Albert Terrace;) is open from noon ‘til late, offering a lunch menu daily from opening until 7pm, with specials and a traditional roast available on Sundays. Friday is ‘It’s all a bit gay Fridays’, playing pop and camp tunes. Saturday is ‘Glow’, with regular theme and cabaret acts and more great music. Sunday means Karaoke night. Nice seafront terrace too!

And everyone loves a party! Few are quite such fun as Margate Pride (7-13 Aug 2017), this year offering a week-long LGBT arts festival – from performance art, The Death of Tracey Ermine, with a wake and private view, featuring over 50 dresses, to films like Lucy: My Transgender Life – all climaxing on Sat 12 Aug with heaps more events, a Pride Parade & Rally, parties and an incredible Afterparty at Dreamland! Then chill out around the harbour on Sun 13 Aug!


In such a trendy, arty town, it’s hard to miss fellow gays at almost every turn, as one’s own organic gaydar begins its crackle-and-twitch! And, of course, these days you’re rarely more than a metre or two from even the most closeted queer life, thanks to the usual apps and social media!

  • Margate is easily reached direct by rail from London Saint Pancras International (1¼ hrs) or London Victoria (1½ hrs) by wonderful Southeastern