Why Won’t They Let Me Say I’m Bi?
Bisexuality is massively underrepresented and misrepresented in media. Even when it is shown, it’s never said out loud. Adult characters go from long term relationships with one sex, then the other, and sometimes back again, but you’re more likely to hear them referred to as gay then straight then gay again. So what’s the deal? Why won’t they let them say they’re bi?
We’re all guilty of it. How many of us use the word gay to describe any men who have sex with men? Remember how you felt before you came out and all you saw was a heteronormative society and you felt so different? Are we making bisexuals feel that within our own LGBT community?
Activist and author of Bisexual’s Guide To The Universe Nicole Kristal (@NicoleKristal) wants to change this. She created a series of memes to show the huge misrepresentation of bisexuals. She wants ‘to portray the frustation the bisexual community feels when TV gets it wrong, and the joy we feel when they get it right.’
Mimi Whiteman #Empire pic.twitter.com/gNw7vxzeb8
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) December 3, 2015
Jamal Lyon, #Empire @EmpireFOX @Dannystrong @leedanielsent #malebisexualityexists pic.twitter.com/KgwMjgpSc4
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) December 3, 2015
Camilla Marks, #Empire @EmpireFOX @NaomiCampbell @Dannystrong @leedanielsent #perpetuatingbisexualstereotypes pic.twitter.com/VY04eboCpV
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) December 3, 2015
#StillBisexual meme series outlines how few openly bisexual characters there are on TV https://t.co/Y5FQmjXMKt pic.twitter.com/SSzM5CjhJZ
— Sugarscape (@sugarscape) November 11, 2015
Marissa Cooper, #TheOC pic.twitter.com/cSFrAHkjBs
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 15, 2015
Oberyn Martell #GameofThrones @GameOfThrones @PedroPascal1 pic.twitter.com/vFo8Yqo5J4
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 12, 2015
Barbara Kean. #Gotham @ErinRRichards @jadapsmith pic.twitter.com/6vrU7sn21k
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 12, 2015
Jules. #TheKidsAreAllright @_juliannemoore pic.twitter.com/egAkWfsSSk
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 11, 2015
Brenna Carver. Thanks for the positive representation, @ChasingLifeABCF & @halesbells!!! pic.twitter.com/WTo2TAL0Bl
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 5, 2015
Why won’t they let me say I’m bi? – Joe MacMillan,@HaltAMC @leepace #HaltandCatchFire pic.twitter.com/wzVcCBV4Ub
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 5, 2015
They let me say I was bi! ~ Callie Torres, #GreysAnatomy @SaraRamirez @GreysABC pic.twitter.com/10NLZFxBNt
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 5, 2015
“Why won’t they let me say ‘I’m bi’?” #Mulan #OnceUponATime @OnceABC pic.twitter.com/D6F3tQi1Mc
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 4, 2015
“Risked my life leaving my mobster boyfriend for her but she won’t believe I love her cause I’m bi.” Violet, “Bound” pic.twitter.com/8hDvPQK3sq
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 4, 2015
“Had a boyfriend. Left him to go back to calling myself a lesbian. It was easier than saying I was bi.” ~ Amy pic.twitter.com/Dwsq0eDpGO
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 4, 2015
“I’ve covered up multiple murders, but my darkest secret is that I’m bi.”~Annalise Keating, #HowToGetAwayWithMurder pic.twitter.com/JbcjcfEUjD
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
“It’s easier for me to kill someone than to say I’m bi.” ~ Tyrell Wellick, Mr. Robot @whoismrrobot @martinwallstrom pic.twitter.com/oHF6jEjMhm
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
“I had a boyfriend of two years, even cheated on him with my best male friend. They never let me say I was bi.” pic.twitter.com/PtByedbTLI
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
“They let me say I was bi, then totally gay-washed me.” ~ Alice Pieszecki, #thelword @ilenechaiken @afterellen pic.twitter.com/rPTXFkSQia
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
“Why won’t they let me say I’m bi?” ~ Frank Underwood @HouseofCards @KevinSpacey pic.twitter.com/RP5PQ2O4e3
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
“My show got canceled because they never let me say I was bi.” ~ #Constantine @NBCConstantine #StillBisexual pic.twitter.com/vg3fIeE1bL
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
“Why won’t they let me say I’m bi?” ~ Amy #FakingIt #FakingItLive #StillBisexual @elielcruz @rj4gui4r @BiNetUSA pic.twitter.com/aslpumHT23
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
“I went the whole show without saying I was bi.” ~ Brittany @GLEEonFOX #GleeForever #StillBisexual pic.twitter.com/je1kSMONnu
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
“Why won’t they let me say, ‘I’m bi?'” ~ Piper Chapman, @OITNB @TaySchilling @bisexualindex @rj4gui4r @elielcruz pic.twitter.com/pzT3AbMOyg
— Still Bisexual (@StillBisexual) November 3, 2015
Great story,so spot on 10 out of 10.
I think its because its easier to call someone gay,bent or even a lemon,than call them a bi.
Gay/bent etc is used more and heard more off in daily life.
You’ll also probably find that 99% of the population don’t understand what bi means or even heard of it.
So its time to stand up and spread the word!
GO GO BI,S!!!